Tom & Sherry How to Have It All【電子書籍】[ Elisabeth Glas ]

＜p＞It used to be so easy. To be a good dad was to be the Breadwinner, to be a good mom was to be the Caregiver. Fathers ruled at work, mothers ruled at home. Today, we have a choice. Mothers can also be Breadwinners, and fathers can also be Caregivers. Yet, fathers still rule at work, and mothers still rule at home. Is there simply not enough time to have it all?＜/p＞ ＜p＞Gender has become the go-to explanation to justify how we spend our time. But a closer look at how our parents spent their time reveals the true reason for our choices: Today's working mom spends as much time with her kids as a stay-at-home mom did in the sixties. And today's working dad spends as much time at work as a career dad did in the sixties. Why would we increase the burden instead of sharing it?＜/p＞ ＜p＞Guilt is the true driver behind our choices. Guilt has turned both, home and workplace, into cultures of over-delivery. The good news, however, is that guilt is man-made and can be overcome: We only feel guilty ．．．楽天市場のショップで商品詳細の続きを見る